Success isn’t by luck. If you Play by Luck, you will 99.99% get PLUCK from your success.
Play with Luck = PLuck (a concept I learned from Zig Ziglar)
There is many got to DO’s thing that I learned from my appointed motivation and self-help guru. The below is the summary of what I learned on the D’s of success.
1st D’s – DECIDE THAT YOU ARE GOING TO BE SUCCESSFUL.
First, simply decide to be successful. Many times people wanted to be successful and did not make any final decision that they indeed going to successful.
Wanting are like dreaming for something but if you put a decision to have it, your mind and physical body will eventually work towards attaining it. You can keep wanting for something but without a firm decision to have it, it just turn out to be just another dream that often forgotten once you wake up.
“Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing”. by Abraham Lincoln
2nd D’s – DETERMINE WHAT SUCCESS MEAN TO YOU?
Do you know what success meant to you? Many of us didn’t come about to being successful due to generalization in the meaning of success.
Example Bad Definition #1: Success is having many of money.
Having $10 for a beggar will mean enormous money to them. Will $10 be sufficient to you? Or do you wanted $10 thousand or $10 million instead?
Example Bad Definition #2: Success is to be free and do what ever I want.
This is simply ridiculous. Why? Because this type of success would mean that you intended to be homeless beggar on the street. They have no worries, money isn’t a necessity, they have no obligation to whosoever, they can do whatever they want and be wherever they want. Do you want to be like them?
Example Bad Definition #3: Success is having a good education and passing exam.
Will, secondary school enough for you or do you need a professor educational to be called a success. Our late Tan Sri Dato Seri Dr. Lim Goh Tong had only schooling until age of sixteen and yet managed to build an empire of businesses.
Example Bad Definition #4: Success is having a good family?
Yes having a lovingly spouse and children are a must in life but do you know what constitute of a loving family. One of the NOT of a loving family is coming home late at night and saying sorry to your children/spouse for missing the dinner with them for the 5th time of the week.
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